Archive for June, 2007

Find Out If You’re Susceptible To Depression

It’s commonly known that you should go to the doctors for regular checkups. Depending on what your getting checked for, you might need to go every 4,6, or maybe even 12 months.

Why do people go for checkups? Because they want to know if there’s a possibility they might be coming down with some type of disorder, cancer or disease.

Unfortunately, there are few tests that can tell you whether or not you’re about to come down with a bout of depression. You have to go for expensive and nerve-wrecking blood tests to see if you have the genes that make you more susceptible to it, but since it’s usually caused by the events in your life – there is no way to catch it before it starts.

However thanks to a man named Martin Seligman, a famous psychologist, just by observing your life a bit more closely you can tell how easily you can fight off a bout of depression.

Optimist Or Pessimist?

By paying attention to the way we think and act, we can gain further insights as to our inner cognitions. By understanding them we can figure out how easily our body can deal with stress – which is what causes depression.

Research has proven that optimists have the ability to fight off bodily stress much easier than pessimists. This stress includes physical stress from exercise, internal stress, mental stress, and all other kinds of stress.

Here are 3 things you can look at to see if you are less or more likely to develop major depression in your lifetime.

  1. Rumination - This is simply ruminating over things that have already happened. Do you mull over events that occurred a few days ago, even if there’s nothing you can do to change the circumstances? If so, you have a much greater chance of developing depression.
  2. Helplessness - How easily do you give up on projects or other things you’re trying to accomplish? If you show helplessness, that is, if you learn to become helpless after failing at something a few times, you have a much greater chance of developing depression. An example of this would be starting a blog and quitting after 2 months.
  3. Pessimism - Do you find yourself looking at the bad aspects of every situation? If something bad happens, do you focus on how bad it is or do you try to find the positives in the situation? Do you complain a lot? Do you feel as if you’re never going to achieve your goals or complete a task you want to complete? If you find yourself doing any of these things, you have a much greater chance of developing depression.

Throughout the next week, try to keep these ideas fresh in your mind. Come back to this post and refresh every other day or so. Then live the next week without trying to change anything, and see if you display any of these qualities.

If you do, there’s a good chance of you developing depression if you go through a rough patch in your life. You should then start to develop systems for what you should do in each scenario.

If you catch yourself thinking negative thoughts about your future, immediately turn that image into something positive. If you feel as if you want to give up on exercising, a project your working on, or anything else, please don’t. By sticking with it you may actually be strengthening your self-esteem and lessening your chances of developing depression.

At this website I try to teach you about things that will improve your life to the maximum. I think learning how to combat depression is a very important thing because the opposite of having the perfect happiness is being depressed!

Please take the next week or so to see if you have these qualities. If so, don’t be upset that you do – it’s part of who you are. Instead of being upset that you weren’t born with an optimistic view of life, be optimistic that you found this website and know how to change yourself!


By Jeremy in Happiness  .::. (Add your comment)

How To Save Your Eyes

If you spend a decent amount of time on your computer, this one is for you. I found a great little program that makes a little pop-up the corner of the screen you choose and reminds you to look away from the screen for a few seconds.

I got this product as an e-mail but I’m sharing it with you for your benefit as well.

By the way, it’s 100% free and there’s absolutely no catch to it.

Here is a copy of the e-mail I received.

"Near-point activities like computer use and reading are
reported by the American Optometric Association as one of
the leading causes of vision loss.

Not only can computer use cause dry eyes, headaches, and
blurry vision, it can also cause permanent vision damage.

Luckily there are a few simple habits that you can perform
throughout your day that can prevent these problems and
further vision loss. 

But remembering to constantly perform these simple habits
(like the "10-10-10" rule) throughout your busy day is
extremely challenging. 

That's why I developed my brand new "Vision Defense
Software." It reminds you to perform these simple tasks
throughout your day while at your computer. 

The Vision Defense Software is fully customizable to the way
you work. It installs on your computer in just a couple
minutes and it's extremely simple to use. If you can open
your email, you can use this software.

Best of all, I'm giving it away to my subscribers completely
free - no strings attached.

I'm serious. There is no catch.

Because if just a fraction of the United States population
used this software there would be a reduction of vision
problems in mass proportions. 

And helping people improve and restore their vision
naturally is our #1 goal here at Rebuild Your Vision.

So download your free Vision Defense Software now and start
protecting your eyes against vision loss by going to:

http://www.rebuildyourvision.com/vision_defense_free_download.html "

I think this great little piece of software is great, and hopefully you will to. Vision is one of the most important things in your life so learn to keep it well.

Enjoy!



By Jeremy in Uncategorized  .::. (Add your comment)

Eat That Frog!

When you first start doing work for the day, whether it be at a job or at your own home, what do you tend to accomplish first?

Looking back on the past week or so, do you notice that you tend to accomplish the “easier” things first, just to get them out of the way?

If so, you should try doing the exact opposite of that.

This is a concept I first heard from Brian Tracy, one of the leading personal development moguls of this day. I’ve been listening to him for years now and what he speaks is pure gold.

Imagine having to eat a live frog each morning as the first thing you did for that day. Unless you like eating live frogs, I’m guessing it wouldn’t be a very pleasant time for you. But what happens AFTER you’re done?

You would realize that you’ve just accomplished probably the hardest thing that your going to come across for the entire day. The most unpleasant, most unsatisfying thing you have to do in an entire day has already been completed.

NOW how would you feel, knowing that every single other thing you would do today would be much easier than what you already accomplished?

Believe me, you would feel much better. You can now look at the day from a new angle, a new perspective, with a more positive outlook. The rest of your activities would seem trivial as compared to what you’ve already accomplished, and therefore you would not only get more done because you realized it’s not as hard as you think, but you’d also enjoy it more!

Now, obviously you probably don’t have to do anything like a eat a frog each morning, but this can work with any part of your life. If you hate working out, make that the first thing you do in the morning. Then it’s done! If you don’t like writing but have to do some for work, do it first thing and get it over with.

The best part about this is the fact that in most cases the thing you want to do the least is the thing that needs to be done the most. If there’s nothing that you don’t enjoy doing, just switch it around a bit and do the thing that is the most urgent.

This will push your personal productivity through the roof. Your co-workers will begin to think of you as the person who “always has everything done early” and your bosses will take notice – which is always a great thing.

The next time you need to get a project done, do it early. Work on it first thing each morning until it’s done. If you can do it all in one sitting, that’s even better! Not only will your personal productivity get better, but you have a better chance of getting a raise and advancing in your career as well.

Now get to work on that project that’s staring you in the face!

PS – By the way, Brian over at www.geniustypes.com (his link is also under my blogroll) is giving away a Free Day Planner and Time Management System. I just won a book from him last week so maybe this’ll be my lucky week again!




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